Privacy: who can see your details
Everyone or Friends only, and whether members can find you.
Help center / Account & verification
Open Account settings and go to Privacy (desifam.com/account#privacy). Choose who sees your bio, city and posts: Everyone, or Friends only. Your name and photo show either way. With Friends only, you also don't appear in Desis near you.
You can also turn off "Show me in Desis near you, people search and hometown suggestions". Then members can't find you in those lists — your friends still see you in their friends list.